From a tea estate to a cowshed
I Gave Up The Job My Parents Approved Of.
I grew up on a tea estate in Assam, before Calcutta, then Delhi, and eventually the English
countryside. When I arrived in 1998 I genuinely could not cook. The weather I could live
without. The food I could not, especially the kind an aunt makes for you without ever being
asked.
For seventeen years I worked as a management consultant and complained, without pause,
about how hard it was to find proper Indian food. Eventually an exasperated friend told me
to put my money where my mouth was. So in my forties I did the one thing my parents would
thoroughly disapprove of, and left a good job to cook for a living.
It started with two supper clubs in my front room and £750 spent on thalis. The shed at the
bottom of the garden quietly turned into a kitchen. By 2019 we had moved into the barn above
Silent Pool, and we have barely paused since.
No self-respecting, educated Indian woman gives up a good job in her
forties to cook for a living. I did exactly that.